The presenter recommends choosing the communication medium deliberately, considering face-to-face conversation, a phone call or video rather than defaulting to a written message. A second recommendation is to consider whether the conversation needs privacy or other people nearby.

The third tip concerns timing: consider schedules, the chance to unwind and when each person can think carefully. The presenter encourages following a deliberate plan rather than changing it by accident. These are personal recommendations, not evidence that a public place or a particular medium guarantees safety or controls another person’s reaction.